[arm-allstar] Bind port

[Chris Zenchenko]

I've reached the end of my ability to solve the problem of changed bind
port.
AT&T forced me to change from my old DSL network to a slightly newer adsl2+
network they call high-speed internet.
Well that got me a gateway and trashed my network.
With DMZ active to my old router everything is sort of working but not
allstar.
Browsing says that the gateway traps the 4569 port because even though I
don't have voip service I might want it.
So I did the following:
Changed bind port in iax.conf to 4559.
On allstar.org changed my server setting to reflect the 4559.
Confirmed by watching my node on the site that it comes up and shows key-up
and connections to my secondary node here behind the firewall.
However when I run the diag it says there is no rpt_extnodes file in /tmp.
When I sign in to the asterisk panel and show registry it shows the old port
4569 and says not registered.
If I manually run rc.updatenodelist it just hangs.
I can ping the register.allstarlink.org.
I can ping google.
I can confirm that my router is configured with the correct port forward
since I just expanded the range to include 4550 through 4570, just in case.
So what am I missing?
What other files need to know about the changed port?
HELP!!!